My partner just 201 himself for irritability?
For the 201 part, a 201 commitment is voluntary so if he thinks hes ready to leave, he can unless the doctors think he is a danger to himself or to others. If he is verbally and physically abusive, that isnt a good thing. Yes, he deserves help, but in the hospital he will be getting it. You should focus on yourself right now, are you ok? I dont know the details of your situation but any kind of abuse is not ok, even if it is due to his mental illness you need to look after your own safety 1st.